Of course, there have been quarrels, as well as the distress, joys, and embarrassment caused by cultural differences.īut overall, it is our differences that help us get to know, and like each other, better. We spent a long time living together in lockdown. That was three and-a-half years ago - and we've been together ever since. When I first came to Australia to study, I met Paul* on a dating app.Īfter several dates, we just felt right.